Expanded Availability for Asexuality: A Brief Introduction

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You can now get the paperback copy of Asexuality: A Brief Introduction from a wider variety of book sellers.

Powells | Elliot Bay Book Co.Barnes & Noble | Alibiris | Books A Million

Or try your local indie bookstore at: Indie Bound

You can probably have almost any bookstore do a special order.  The ISBN is 9781477428085.

(And, of course, you can still get it from Amazon [Paperback | Kindle], and you can still download the entire PDF for free from AsexualityArchive.com.)

Asexuality Questionnaire: Part 1

Over on AsexualityArchive.com, I’ve put up the first round of questions in my asexuality questionnaire project.  The goal of the project is to ask a large number of questions about asexuality and life as an asexual, then compile the answers into a series of posts (and eventually, maybe even another book).  Right now, there’s only a handful of questions, but I hope to grow this until there are many sections, with several hundred questions all together.

This first round is questions about asexuality in general.  Future rounds will be about more specific topics.

As this is brand new, please let me know if there’s anything wrong with the process in general or if you have any ideas about how it can be improved.  Also, you might want to keep your answers saved off locally for a while, in case I mess up and accidentally delete all the results.  I’ve never used this survey software for anything before and I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing.

Feel free to send me question ideas, too.  I’ve got a big list of them already, but I’m just one ace, so there’s no way I can know everything that would be important to cover.

Asexuality: A Brief Introduction — Now in paperback!

My book on asexuality, Asexuality: A Brief Introduction, is now available in paperback form through Amazon.

Amazon.com (US): $5.95

Amazon.co.uk (UK): £3.81

It’s also available as a free PDF download (Yep, the whole thing!) directly from my site. 

AsexualityArchive.com (PDF): $0.00/£0.00/¥0/0 GP

(Kindle Edition Coming Soon!)

About Asexuality: A Brief Introduction:

Sometimes called “A Fourth Orientation”, asexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by a persistent lack of sexual attraction toward any gender. This book explores love, sex, and life, from an asexual point of view. This book is for anyone, regardless of orientation. Whether you’re asexual, think you might be, know someone who is, or just want to learn more about what asexuality is (and isn’t), there’s something inside for you. This is one of the first books exclusively dedicated to the subject of asexuality as a sexual orientation. Written by an asexual, it discusses the topic from the inside.

Query Terms

So, AsexualityArchive.com is running WordPress, and WordPress stats show you the query terms that people used to find your site.  Normally, the list is full of things like “signs of asexuality” or “ace flag” or other things that my site talks about.  Sometimes there’s the person who clearly thinks the domain reads as “A Sexuality Archive”, looking for porn or some such.  Once, I had someone clearly trying to cheat on their homework, searching for “a newly identified sexual orientation is characterized by a lack of sexual attraction to others is called what?”.

I think the one that’s in there today has to be one of the most bizarre:

“what are called if you think you’ve had sex with an alien”

And what makes it even more inexplicable is that I’m the number 2 result on Google for that phrase.

Well now.  I am totally going to have to take advantage of my ranking for that phrase.  Maybe I can even hit #1!

Asexuality Book

Have I mentioned that I’m working on a book about asexuality?

Because I’m working on a book about asexuality.

I’ve put up an early preview draft here:  http://www.asexualityarchive.com/book/

So, take a look and let me know what you think about it so far.  (It’s pretty much just a compilation of my posts at this point, but it’s a decent place to start.)

Hmmm… Maybe I need to edit that a bit.

I just finished the first draft of a post for AsexualityArchive.com on some of the signs of asexuality. It was meant to be something quick and short. Somehow it ended up at around 5000 words. And it’s only going to get longer as I revise it.

That can only mean one thing:

Multi-part series!

Never done one of those before. Have to see how it turns out.

Of course, I’m also afraid that instead of being taken as a “You might be ace if…” list, people will take it as “You’re not ace unless…” list, like it’s a diagnostic checklist or something, which is not what it’s supposed to be at all.

I’d better get to revising. I don’t want this to take another three weeks to get out.

I’ve started a new section on AsexualityArchive.com devoted to quick answers to questions about asexuality. It’s for things that may not rise to the level of needing a full post, or that may have a longer post devoted to the topic already, but would benefit from a specific question that’s a bit more search-engine-friendly.

Any other questions you’d like to see answered here?

(I should note that some of these questions might seem a tad dumb (“How do I become asexual?”, for instance…), but it’s my goal to include questions that people actually are likely to ask, potentially out of ignorance, and give them informative and correct answers, and eventually hopefully fight some of the nonsense in search results that’ll turn up in the results for questions like this.)

And then today happened.

And then today happened.

biokier:

I am asexual.
I don’t feel sexually attracted to anyone.
Not men. Not women.
That’s all it is.
I’m not gay.
I’m not straight.
I’m not bi.
I’m none of the above.
Asexuality is real.
It’s not fake.
It’s not a hormone problem.
It’s not a way of running from a bad relationship.
It’s not an…

Looks like the site is working as planned… Good to see.

BTW, the source link appears to be broken. It looks like there’s an extra “http://” stuck on the end, so it leads to an error page. The correct link is: http://www.asexualityarchive.com/i-am-asexual/